Questions to umpires

My daughter is a high school freshman pitcher. In the middle of the inning switch, she approached the home plate umpire to ask where she was missing the plate. He answered her questions saying they were just barely inside or outside and a little low. The outfield umpire runs up and yells at her that she’s not allowed to ask where the strike zone is at, which she was not. He yells to get in the dugout and that she’s ejected from pitching for the rest of the game. Is this a rule? If the home plate ump didn’t have a problem answering her, why did the other make a big deal and embarrass her in front of both teams and a stand full of parents? Please help out this frustrated mom